I gotta say, for a lot of people, talking about anal pleasure with a dildo can be a little tabu. But trust me, if you don’t mind delving into the more risqué bits of self-pleasure, you’ll come to love it. I know I do.
First thing: relax. You want to slowly ease into it. Everyone’s body is different, and some may take longer to relax than others. Grab yourself some lube, and get the dildo of your choice. Make sure that the lube is compatible with the dildo, and your body, as there are some lubes that might cause an irrating reaction.
Next, get into a comfortable position. I find that laying down on my back with my legs spread works best. This way you’re able to access the anal area easier, without soreness or strain. Relax your body and take some deep breaths, this will not only help you stay relaxed and in the moment, but will increase circulation allowing the body to relax even more.
Now that you’re at ease, Penis Rings it’s time for some casual massage. Gently rub the palm of your hand in circles on your anus, remember this is about pleasure, not pain, so make sure that pressure is light, and that you’re using a lubricant of your choice. When you feel aroused and ready, you can gently insert the dildo into your anus, and start exploring different sensations.
Try to focus on your pleasure, and what feels good to your body. Start with shallow thrusts, that way you can get accustomed to the feeling, and then go deeper when you’re comfortable. If it starts to hurt, or you just feel too tight and need a break, stop and take some deep breaths. You can also take a break and start the process over again.
There are no right or dildos wrongs here, it’s all about taking your time and letting your body do the work. When you find positions or speeds that feel good, stick with them and experiment. Some people like rapid thrusting and vibration, some like slow and gentle, so find what you like best and explore.
The best thing about using a dildo in your ass is that you can take complete control of the situation. You can vary the angle of the dildo, the length and speed of the thrusts, and tilt your hips in a way that helps you reach different spots inside your body. Being mindful (and vocal!) of the pleasure and sensations that feel good can help you find new levels of enjoyment that you wouldn’t necessarily achieve with just trying out different positions.
Now that you feel more confident and comfortable with the sensations inside your body, let’s explore different speeds and motions with the dildo. Try slight angling and twisting of the dildo, and incorporate some vibration into the mix! You do not need to use powerful motions, as some people prefer gentler vibrations to more intense. Experiment and find out what your body likes best.
Do not forget that there are other areas of your body that can be aroused alongside your ass. Stimulating nipples and clitoris can bring even more sensations and pleasure to your session. Everytime I find something new and pleasurable, I let out little moans and sighs, that’s how I know I hit the spot.
Those secret little paths you uncover while exploring with the dildo, are always worth it. Experiment, take it slow, and find what works best for you, and don’t forget to enjoy every moment. That’s the key to success when it comes to using a dildo in your ass. Believe me, it’ll be worth it.