I always like to think about different types of sex when trying to decide if it is something for me or not. So when I started hearing about dildos being used as a form of penetration, I had to do some research to see if that would classify as having sex or just masturbation.
When I first heard about dildos, I immediately thought it was something that only women could use. But, as I did some digging, I found out that guys are actually the ones who do it most often. Apparently, a lot of guys like to use it as a form of ‘edging’ — increasing sexual arousal and releasing built up tension before climax. So when it comes to dildos, it’s not just a girl thing.
From talking with friends and researching online, I gathered that a lot of people think of dildos as a form of solo sex. Some may call it masturbation, but others claim that it’s actually a form of sex itself. You can definitely achieve some of the great aspects of sex with a dildo — arousal, pleasure, orgasm — without needing another person. So while it may not be the same kind of sex as with a partner, it’s still considered a form of sex.
That being said, there are different types of dildos. Some are made specifically for male penetration, with vibrating or thrusting function, while others are geared more towards female penetration. So it can really depend on the type of dildo you’re using, and who’s using it, as to whether or not it’s considered sex or masturbation.
I personally think of it as a form of self-pleasure that’s not really just masturbation. It’s an opportunity to explore sensations, practice for future sex, and maybe even discover something new about yourself. It’s also a great way to have orgasms without the worry of STDs or pregnancy. So in my eyes, it’s somewhere between sex and masturbation, and I think that’s a pretty cool thing.
When it comes to safety, there are definitely some things to keep in mind. First, make sure you’re using a high quality dildo that’s made from body-safe materials. Also, always use plenty of lubricant to ensure a smoother, safer experience. And finally, never share dildos with other people — even if they look clean — since it may put you at risk of infection.
These tips apply both to solo sex and sex with a partner. To me, it just seems like a matter of respect for yourself and others whether you decide to use a dildo or not. And at the end of the day, I think it really comes down to personal preferences.
Now that I’ve seen the versatility of dildos and the benefits they can offer, I appreciate them in a whole new light. I’ve even started to explore other types of penetrative sex toys — butt plugs, vibrators, prostate stimulators. Even though I haven’t tried any yet, I know that when I do, I will be much better informed. Now I just have to decide whether I want a vibrating dildo or a thrusting one…