My best orgasms usually come when I’m masturbating. There’s something about getting to explore my body and explore what feels good for me that is deeply satisfying. I’ve been discovering my own sexual pleasure since I was young, and I recently realized that masturbation is often the best way for me to reach peak physical and mental pleasure.
Every time I put on some music, light a couple scented candles, and spend a few minutes touching myself, I feel like I’m entering a different realm. It’s almost like a spiritual journey for me. I often find myself sprawled out on the bed, exploring every little bit of pleasure that I can muster up. I’m always surprised at the different sensations my body can experience when I’m in the midst of it. I don’t think that I’ve ever felt anything quite as powerful as male masturbation.
For me, the best orgasms come when I focus on teasing myself. I enjoy feeling out my body, edging, and playing different variations in order to get as much pleasure from the experience as possible. It’s really enjoyable for me to take my time and build up to a climax. When I’m masturbating with a partner, I don’t always get the same satisfaction — so using my own hands provides a unique pleasure that I can’t really achieve any other way.
I think male masturbation is a great way to really discover what your body is capable of in terms of physical pleasure. Every person’s body reacts differently to various things, and it’s really exciting to explore different areas of your body and different techniques to see what kind of reactions they bring. I’m continuously learning about what I like during masturbation.
Edging is something new I’ve been trying lately. This technique involves bringing yourself to the brink of orgasm but then stopping, or slowing down in order to prolong the experience. It requires a lot of patience and a bit of discipline, but I feel like it adds an extra element to the experience and makes every orgasm more intense than it would usually be.
Experimenting with different lubes can also provide a new level of pleasure. Different lubes can provide different textures and sensations. Some are tingly or cooling, while others are more hydrating. I love exploring new lubes to see what feels best on my body. I also really like to use lube along with my favorite sex toys—it really increases the intensity of the whole experience.
Using different speeds can also be a great way to explore your body during masturbation. Varying the pressure and speed of your strokes can provide different levels of pleasure — from slow and gentle to fast and intense. This is especially true when exploring new areas of my body with different types of toys or tools.
Taking a break from masturbation every once in a while can be great too. I know that when I return after taking a bit of a break, I feel more attuned to my body and ready to appreciate the pleasure that comes during the act of masturbation. During these breaks, I like to focus on other areas of my life and sex toys just relax — this helps me recharge mentally and give even more depth to my experiences.